The Self-Love Elixir

Making Friends with Hypnotherapy

Nov 07, 2025

Here's something no one ever talks about... The friendship wounds.

We've all had those friends that we loved with our entire heart and soul..and ended up losing touch with. 

We have the friends we wanted to love but constantly made us feel bad about ourselves...the frenemies. 

We have the friends we've hurt and broke contact with out of sheer shame. 

We have people we've wanted to be friends with but the feeling wasn't mutual. 

And no one talks about how those friendship wounds sometimes take a bigger hit to our self esteem than romantic relationships. 

The truth is that losing friends is a very real traumatic experience. And when it's left untreated it can mess with your quality of life. 

We are not meant to go through life alone. And the only reason why we would think its ok to do so, is if we've already brain-washed ourselves into believing it's the only way to live. 

But if you're here with an open and honest heart, and you know you'd love to have a BFF...then keep reading. This is for you. 

Making friends as a grown woman can feel harder than dating.

You can be friendly, kind, funny, and open…

and still feel:

💔 Left out

💔 Disconnected

💔 Invisible

💔 Like everyone already has their group

💔 Or like you just don’t fully “fit” anywhere

And the worst part?

When you want connection, but your mind sabotages it:

⚠️ You overthink what you said

⚠️ You worry you’re being judged

⚠️ You feel awkward or “too much”

⚠️ You replay conversations in your head

⚠️ You assume people don’t really like you

⚠️ You pull back so you don’t get hurt

It’s not a personality flaw.

It’s not social anxiety.

It’s not that other women are better than you.

Here’s the real truth:

➡️ Making friends is a subconscious self-worth issue.

➡️ If you don’t feel lovable, it’s hard to believe anyone else will love you.

And that is why hypnotherapy is the missing piece.

Friendships Don’t Start With Other People — They Start With You

You attract what you believe about yourself.

So if deep down you feel:

❌ not good enough

❌ unsure of your value

❌ afraid of being judged

❌ scared of rejection

❌ uncomfortable being seen

❌ like you don’t belong

Your brain protects you by:

✨ pulling away

✨ staying guarded

✨ avoiding vulnerability

✨ shutting down around other women

✨ acting like you “don’t need anyone”

This isn’t you being antisocial.

It’s your subconscious saying:

“Connection isn’t safe.”

Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapy Rewires That Belief

Hypnosis works at the part of the mind that controls:

✔ confidence

✔ trust

✔ worthiness

✔ openness

✔ emotional safety

✔ connection

✔ self-love

When the subconscious feels safe and worthy of love…

💗 you stop overthinking

💗 you stop comparing

💗 you stop assuming people don’t like you

💗 you show up as yourself

💗 you feel relaxed around other women

💗 you attract deeper friendships naturally

You don’t try to be confident — you ARE confident.

You don’t try to fit in — you FEEL like you belong.

Friendship becomes effortless — because you’re not fighting the belief that says you’re unworthy of it. And most importantly you stop projection your own self- beliefs unto others. Because the truth is, we can only accept people to the level we accept ourselves. 

If we are (subconsciously) hard on ourselves...this is especially true of perfectionist, we will always repeal people with our energy. 

But when we feel safe to be who we are, to be silly and make mistakes and be ok with being vulnerable then we open the energetic gates for friends. 

Woman are taught about friendship differently than men.

Women are taught to:

• Compete

• Compare

• Be perfect

• Downplay their strengths

• Avoid being “too emotional” or “too sensitive”

• Keep walls up so no one sees the real them

But meaningful friendships require vulnerability — and vulnerability requires self-love.

When you don’t deeply love yourself, friendships feel threatening:

“What if they see the real me?”

“What if they judge me?”

“What if they leave?”

“What if I’m not enough?”

So you protect yourself by staying on the outside.

Hypnotherapy changes the inside — so the outside changes easily.

Imagine This Version of You:

✨ You walk into rooms confident and relaxed

✨ You feel comfortable talking to women

✨ You trust that people enjoy being around you

✨ You make friends naturally and effortlessly

✨ You stop overthinking every interaction

✨ You actually let people in

✨ You attract women who love and support you

Not because you’re trying…

…but because you finally believe you deserve connection.

This Is Exactly Why I Created The Self Love Elixir

The Self Love Elixir is a hypnosis-based experience designed to help women:

💗 feel enough

💗 trust themselves

💗 soften their walls

💗 heal old wounds

💗 feel safe being seen

💗 attract healthy connection

💗 and build real friendships

When you love yourself deeply, you stop entertaining thoughts of loneliness and not enough-ness. Your focus shifts from fear of rejection and abandonment to possibilities. What would it be like if you had a friend to share tons of inside jokes with? How would it feel to never feel lonely again? What would it be like for you to have someones back unconditionally? To go on girls nights and create an epic friendship story? 

 

 

If You’re Ready for Friendships That Feel Like Home…

You don’t need to be more outgoing.

You don’t need a different personality.

You don’t need to force confidence.

You just need to remove the subconscious blocks that say:

❌ “I’m not enough.”

❌ “People don’t like me.”

❌ “I don’t belong.”

And replace them with:

✅ “I’m lovable.”

✅ “I’m safe with other women.”

✅ “I attract aligned friendships.”

so that Women WANT to be around you.

Because self-love is felt — not spoken.

That’s what The Self Love Elixir does.

 

If you’re ready to connect, be seen, and finally feel like you belong…

👉 Join The Self Love Elixir.

Because loving yourself is what makes everyone else love you too.

 

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