Overstimulated Mom and Hypnosis

I have a confession to make. I used to be a chronically overstimulated mom. 

I spent my days in sweats, buns, and oily hair. I was always mentally complaining about my to-do list, the lack of time and the energy being sucked out of my body. 

Days where I had to dress up and wear makeup felt extremely overstimulating. And anytime I had some time off I just wanted to couch-rot. 

I didn't realize it then but I was living to survive and to give my kids the best life I could. But all I was really doing is training my daughter to put herself last  as a mother and to show them that life with kids was hard. 

Ironically, I wasn't much different than I am today. I was always positive and loving. Which made it harder to spot the problem.

Everything I was experiencing...the weight-gain, the frustration, mood swings, unfulfilled life were hidden under the disguise of "loving mom" 

Here is what I wish I would have known at the time (and what I really want every mom going through this to know)... all those feelings were pre-programmed. 

Long before I even thought about having children I had made an unconscious choice. I had programmed my mind to make motherhood hard. 

This was years of training in the making. Every time my mom complained, every time I heard women in my life and gatherings complaining about their husband, their kids, their lack of time, I accepted that as a truth. 

And I subconsciously programmed my mind to believe life as a mother was hard. 

I have another confession...even after this information "clicked" I refused to see it as truth. I loved my family, and I sure as heck was trying my best to move things along. 

But that is the thing about subconscious beliefs, they feel like facts. They feel real. You can't really see around them unless you know what you're looking for. 

It wasn't until my mental health really started to decline that I decided I had to do something different. 

So I did what I do best. I broke the hypnosis around that programming and I created a new one. 

I created a life where I loved myself so much I got to design a life that felt easy. 

For me that included daily showers, makeup, an effortless clean home, multiple Disney trips a month, mostly healthy dinners that didn't feel like they sucked up my whole day. Confident kids with great grades and a healthy self-esteem. 

I wanted my family and I to enjoy life. To spend less time doing what every other family is programmed to be and for us to have our own happy identities. 

To be close to God and to have our own safe bubble. 

And that is exactly what I got. 

What I found is that a happy mom really is a happy life for everyone. When you learn the authenticity of self-love, you connect to your intuition. 

Your life flows easier. Your finances get cleaner (that one is huge for a happy family) your health becomes a priority. Your relationships become a source of refueling. 

That is what I offer you inside The Self-Love Elixir. 

A chance to fix the foundation of a happy family-a happy you.

A fulfilled and excited about life you. 

If you're curious about what life looks like when you update your programming come check out The Self-Love Elixir. 

This is not a study program. This is a re-programming experience. A process worth every second. 

Because time is moving fast. And if you're going to make the best of it, some programming might need to change.